THE WIFE MATERIAL MANY MEN DON'T DESERVE TO SEW
THE WIFE MATERIAL MANY MEN DON'T DESERVE TO SEW
Until a woman marries in Ghana, her life is almost like an audition to attract a man- just a man. Men make little effort to be husband material.
After all, he is the tailor by default and the woman is made aware of this during her naming ceremony. Marriage will be better if men are prepared like women are.
In this generation, our only solution to the rampant divorces is to sow in our boys the same sense of responsibility sown in girls.
This is because the 21 century woman, unlike our mothers and their mothers will not stay glued to unworthy marriages and husbands not materia enough to be used for a quality attire.
As we prepare our baby girls for a man, we should raise the boy to deserve such a woman..
If mothers of this century train the boy child well such cases will not repeat itself.
If we can impact the sense of wifely responsibilities into a girl,then why not the boy
Mothers and fathers let's come together to bring the best out of this new generation.
It all starts with us
Ayisha Sibidow
Until a woman marries in Ghana, her life is almost like an audition to attract a man- just a man. Men make little effort to be husband material.
After all, he is the tailor by default and the woman is made aware of this during her naming ceremony. Marriage will be better if men are prepared like women are.
In this generation, our only solution to the rampant divorces is to sow in our boys the same sense of responsibility sown in girls.
This is because the 21 century woman, unlike our mothers and their mothers will not stay glued to unworthy marriages and husbands not materia enough to be used for a quality attire.
As we prepare our baby girls for a man, we should raise the boy to deserve such a woman..
We let the girl child cook, wash, clean, mob, take care of their younger ones etc but the boy child is left to go out to play.
In the end he can't live without a woman,in every step of his life he needs a care taker.Some one to wash, clean and cook for him.Things his mother did for him.
A man must be independent off a woman,he should be raised to be able to do anything for himself.
Marriage should be complementary. If the man is the head, then he must shoulder the greatest of responsibility. He must be the perfect example of how the marriage should be. It is only in marriage that the supposed leader is expected to do considerably less.
Our generation should be different, our children should be taught better because our daughters also deserve husband materials.
Any man at all feels entitled to a good woman.
Bad tailors should not be trusted with quality material
Women are sometimes verbally,emotionally and physically abused by their husbands even in this modern times.
Marriage should be complementary. If the man is the head, then he must shoulder the greatest of responsibility. He must be the perfect example of how the marriage should be. It is only in marriage that the supposed leader is expected to do considerably less.
Our generation should be different, our children should be taught better because our daughters also deserve husband materials.
Any man at all feels entitled to a good woman.
Bad tailors should not be trusted with quality material
Women are sometimes verbally,emotionally and physically abused by their husbands even in this modern times.
Beating up a woman should be a no no for any man and that is the lesson mist mothers and fathers fail to teach their children.Fighting and arguing in front of our children should be avoided
Let's teach our boys how to treat women like QUEENS and our girls how to treat their men like KINGS
If mothers of this century train the boy child well such cases will not repeat itself.
If we can impact the sense of wifely responsibilities into a girl,then why not the boy
Mothers and fathers let's come together to bring the best out of this new generation.
It all starts with us
Ayisha Sibidow
What we fail to understand is that to be submissive to a husband has a condition to it. That condition as stated in the Bible is that the husband is to love his wife. Lovely piece Ayisha.
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